The fact that you can ask where I want to be touched makes you a better lay than a lot of the things you think make you a good lay.
It's very common for us to worry about how to be a good lay and how to give and receive pleasure in the best possible way. And to that end, today, there are tons of content creators teaching you a thousand techniques, ancient or contemporary, to be a better lay. And it's all very cool. But the best possible technique is:
First, know where you like to be touched:
Touching you, sucking you, kissing you, caressing you, and all the arts in the world. You must know how to do it. And to know how to do it, you must experiment. And experimenting is doing things that you like and others that you don't. And that's okay. Because you discover your pleasure points. But then, the other person must know them...
Second, ask and/or communicate where you want to be touched:
It would be great if your partner asked you. But if not, tell them where those spots are that you previously discovered during the experimentation. For this, we recommend our pack of 10 mini temporary tattoos of Xs or numbers (from 1 to 10) that you can put on those areas of your body where you want to be touched—and all the previous verbs.
Experimenting and going blind is a fundamental part of building your own map of pleasure and erotic satisfaction. But always going blind is boring. It dulls your erotic play and takes away its flavor, even if it "works" for you.
Try not to exceed either experimentation or the pleasure map.
